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On 11/10/2015 10:03, Chris Hogg wrote:
On Sun, 11 Oct 2015 10:21:06 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 16:23:20 +0100, Broadback wrote: On 10/10/2015 16:11, Phil L wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 14:06:09 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 11:44:12 +0100, Broadback wrote: This year our house has been inundated with large spiders. Thank goodness neither myself of my wife a frightened by them. Almost every morning there are one, and sometimes 2, in the bath. Where are they all coming from? It is not the same one as they are flushed away each morning. They climb back up the waste pipe. So how do they get past the trap? They don't go past the trap when they are flushed, so once the tap is turned off, they simply climb out of the waste and wait in the bath for 24 hours for it to happen again, this is because they can't get out of the bath due to the sides being too smooth. If the OP wishes to get rid of them, simply scoop up on a piece of paper and lob em out of the bathroom window, it only needs to be done once instead of bathing them every day. But every one has been destroyed, yet they still keep coming. I assume they come down from above and cannot get back. They certainly can't get in through the waste pipe, as spiders cannot swim!! but they can walk on water. Worshipful, then! As are all spiders :~))) !! -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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On 11/10/2015 10:52, Martin wrote:
On Sun, 11 Oct 2015 10:03:17 +0100, Chris Hogg wrote: On Sun, 11 Oct 2015 10:21:06 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 16:23:20 +0100, Broadback wrote: On 10/10/2015 16:11, Phil L wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 14:06:09 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 11:44:12 +0100, Broadback wrote: This year our house has been inundated with large spiders. Thank goodness neither myself of my wife a frightened by them. Almost every morning there are one, and sometimes 2, in the bath. Where are they all coming from? It is not the same one as they are flushed away each morning. They climb back up the waste pipe. So how do they get past the trap? They don't go past the trap when they are flushed, so once the tap is turned off, they simply climb out of the waste and wait in the bath for 24 hours for it to happen again, this is because they can't get out of the bath due to the sides being too smooth. If the OP wishes to get rid of them, simply scoop up on a piece of paper and lob em out of the bathroom window, it only needs to be done once instead of bathing them every day. But every one has been destroyed, yet they still keep coming. I assume they come down from above and cannot get back. They certainly can't get in through the waste pipe, as spiders cannot swim!! but they can walk on water. Worshipful, then! but useless at converting bilge water into wine. Spider bodies contain high levels of copper. They crap this onto boats and particularly onto sails leaving black stains that nothing will remove. Yes, their blood uses copper in the way that ours uses iron. Their blood is tinged light blue. When they first crap, the deposit is chalky white and changes through brown to black. Perhaps if you could deal with the deposit whilst it is still white, you may not suffer the staining. Just a thought. -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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On 10/10/2015 19:09, Christina Websell wrote:
"Mr Pounder Esquire" wrote in message ... "Phil L" wrote in message ... "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 14:06:09 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 11:44:12 +0100, Broadback wrote: This year our house has been inundated with large spiders. Thank goodness neither myself of my wife a frightened by them. Almost every morning there are one, and sometimes 2, in the bath. Where are they all coming from? It is not the same one as they are flushed away each morning. They climb back up the waste pipe. So how do they get past the trap? They don't go past the trap when they are flushed, so once the tap is turned off, they simply climb out of the waste and wait in the bath for 24 hours for it to happen again, this is because they can't get out of the bath due to the sides being too smooth. If the OP wishes to get rid of them, simply scoop up on a piece of paper and lob em out of the bathroom window, it only needs to be done once instead of bathing them every day. The horrid scary ones that I've flushed down the plug hole never appear in the bath again. Ugggg! So what do you think has happened to them? Have you killed them because they look scary? I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. Try the fluffy towel approach. They don't deserve to die because I have an unreasonable fear of them. And it is unreasonable. I know that they cannot harm me but it makes no difference about their scariness. The bigger they are, the worst the fear gets. But it's not their fault, so I try not to harm them. Thank you, Tina, a very sensible and humane approach.-- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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On 15/10/2015 17:23, Chris Hogg wrote:
On Thu, 15 Oct 2015 16:00:43 +0100, Spider wrote: On 11/10/2015 10:52, Martin wrote: Spider bodies contain high levels of copper. They crap this onto boats and particularly onto sails leaving black stains that nothing will remove. Yes, their blood uses copper in the way that ours uses iron. Their blood is tinged light blue. I'm sure republicans will be delighted to know that our nobility and royalty are related to arthropods and molluscs! They'll probably tell you they knew it all along. :-) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hemocyanin They probably keep a stock of metaldehyde just in case HM pops in for tea. Personally, I've got a lot of time for the Queen, but she hasn't popped in yet. Perhaps I should grow cucumbers. -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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"Spider" wrote in message ... On 11/10/2015 09:21, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 16:23:20 +0100, Broadback wrote: On 10/10/2015 16:11, Phil L wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 14:06:09 +0200, Martin wrote: On Sat, 10 Oct 2015 11:44:12 +0100, Broadback wrote: This year our house has been inundated with large spiders. Thank goodness neither myself of my wife a frightened by them. Almost every morning there are one, and sometimes 2, in the bath. Where are they all coming from? It is not the same one as they are flushed away each morning. They climb back up the waste pipe. So how do they get past the trap? They don't go past the trap when they are flushed, so once the tap is turned off, they simply climb out of the waste and wait in the bath for 24 hours for it to happen again, this is because they can't get out of the bath due to the sides being too smooth. If the OP wishes to get rid of them, simply scoop up on a piece of paper and lob em out of the bathroom window, it only needs to be done once instead of bathing them every day. But every one has been destroyed, yet they still keep coming. I assume they come down from above and cannot get back. They certainly can't get in through the waste pipe, as spiders cannot swim!! but they can walk on water. Especially Dolomedes fimbriatus, the so-called Raft Spider. It's the largest spider in Britain and catches aquatic insects, small frogs and small fish. ARRRRRGGGGGG!!!! |
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"Pendragon" wrote in message ... But every one has been destroyed, yet they still keep coming. I assume they come down from above and cannot get back. They certainly can't get in through the waste pipe, as spiders cannot swim!! Karma will get your nasty arse in the end. Good job too. Apparently they come indoors looking for a mate I read in the paper yesterday. Yes. I once saw two spiders in my bath and left them overnight. I saw them mating (they do it behind the head) and by the morning the female had sucked the life out of the male. We use a spider vacuum with great success no matter what size of critter and the kids love catching them too. Then just put them outside and wait for them to come in through the waste pipe again lol Thank goodness the bath seems to trap the biggest critters. You can almost see on their faces the indignity of it all as they are placed outside again after so much effort. after the bath experience I use the fluffy towel technique to remove all spiders in the bath and don't leave them overnight. |
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"Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. |
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On 22/10/2015 22:26, Christina Websell wrote:
"Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. I think my Panther would be more impressed if juicy prawns were scuttling across the carpet! She's more of a monster mouser. -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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"Spider" wrote in message ... On 22/10/2015 22:26, Christina Websell wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. I think my Panther would be more impressed if juicy prawns were scuttling across the carpet! She's more of a monster mouser. My cat is a good mouser, and he's not bad with small rats either. He studiously ignores big rats with the huge chisel brown teeth. He eats the spiders that I don't notice. I do try to put them all outside but if he sees one before I do, unfortunately it's the end of them. Some of the big house spiders are very wiry but he manages. I know they are wiry because I once took a blockage out of my kitchen sink plughole. It was a massive spider that I'd accidently drowned. I nearly died when I saw what I had in my hand. I do realise that my fear is stupid but no matter how much I say to myself "they cannot hurt me" it doesn't work. Something in me says NO to big spiders. Tina |
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On 26/10/2015 17:56, Christina Websell wrote:
"Spider" wrote in message ... On 22/10/2015 22:26, Christina Websell wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. I think my Panther would be more impressed if juicy prawns were scuttling across the carpet! She's more of a monster mouser. My cat is a good mouser, and he's not bad with small rats either. He studiously ignores big rats with the huge chisel brown teeth. He eats the spiders that I don't notice. I do try to put them all outside but if he sees one before I do, unfortunately it's the end of them. Some of the big house spiders are very wiry but he manages. I know they are wiry because I once took a blockage out of my kitchen sink plughole. It was a massive spider that I'd accidently drowned. I nearly died when I saw what I had in my hand. I do realise that my fear is stupid but no matter how much I say to myself "they cannot hurt me" it doesn't work. Something in me says NO to big spiders. Tina Well, there's nothing in the world that says you have to love or handle spiders, large or small. It's not at all stupid, but it is - in this country at any rate - an irrational fear. Elsewhere it's probably good policy to avoid them. You imply, or seem to, that you have little or no trouble with small/er spiders. Have you considered handling a small spider to learn how you react and, maybe, working your way up to medium-size? In very broad terms, that's how a desensitisation programme works. Just how do you cope with smaller spiders? Are these the ones that travel from bath to garden in your fluffy towel, or can you bear to touch them? -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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"Spider" wrote in message ... On 26/10/2015 17:56, Christina Websell wrote: "Spider" wrote in message ... On 22/10/2015 22:26, Christina Websell wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. I think my Panther would be more impressed if juicy prawns were scuttling across the carpet! She's more of a monster mouser. My cat is a good mouser, and he's not bad with small rats either. He studiously ignores big rats with the huge chisel brown teeth. He eats the spiders that I don't notice. I do try to put them all outside but if he sees one before I do, unfortunately it's the end of them. Some of the big house spiders are very wiry but he manages. I know they are wiry because I once took a blockage out of my kitchen sink plughole. It was a massive spider that I'd accidently drowned. I nearly died when I saw what I had in my hand. I do realise that my fear is stupid but no matter how much I say to myself "they cannot hurt me" it doesn't work. Something in me says NO to big spiders. Tina Well, there's nothing in the world that says you have to love or handle spiders, large or small. It's not at all stupid, but it is - in this country at any rate - an irrational fear. Elsewhere it's probably good policy to avoid them. You imply, or seem to, that you have little or no trouble with small/er spiders. Have you considered handling a small spider to learn how you react and, maybe, working your way up to medium-size? In very broad terms, that's how a desensitisation programme works. Just how do you cope with smaller spiders? Are these the ones that travel from bath to garden in your fluffy towel, or can you bear to touch them? No. I would die if I touched one, it's taken years for me to pick up the big ones in the fluffy towel. Anything bigger than a money spider I can't do. I know it's irrational. I'm good with picking up anything else. woodlice, beetles, anything. but just not spiders. I know they won't harm me but they fill me with horror. I don't know why. I tried to study them a bit to see if would help. It didn't. So I am happy be able to gather them up in a fluffy towel and put them outside. That took years and that's as far as I can ever go with spiders. Tina .. |
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On 27/10/2015 00:57, Christina Websell wrote:
"Spider" wrote in message ... On 26/10/2015 17:56, Christina Websell wrote: "Spider" wrote in message ... On 22/10/2015 22:26, Christina Websell wrote: "Chris Hogg" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Oct 2015 17:49:51 +0100, "Christina Websell" wrote: "stuart noble" wrote in message ... I have struggled with fear of spiders all my life but it's not their fault, it's mine. I don't think it's anyone's fault. It's an instinctive thing that's hard wired into our brains from way back. I've trained myself to pick them up by closing my hand over them. They freeze and play dead, which makes it a whole lot easier. Dustpan and brush works well too IME I absolutely could not pick a big spider up with my bare hand although picking up moths and beetles to put them outside is not a problem. Haven't tried the dustpan and brush, probably won't in case it runs over my hand. I can't do the glass and cardboard method either. Because even though I know it's safely in the glass if it runs up it into my hand, I drop it. My favourite and current method is the big fluffy towel, gather them up in it and flap it outside. A good few years ago, we had a cat who loved to eat them. If there was a spider in the bath, SWMBO would put the cat in with it and within moments the spider would be eaten. -- Chris My cat eats spiders (even huge ones) that appear in my house. Even if he's asleep on my lap, he notices spiders and jumps off my lap and gets them. Chomp. I think my Panther would be more impressed if juicy prawns were scuttling across the carpet! She's more of a monster mouser. My cat is a good mouser, and he's not bad with small rats either. He studiously ignores big rats with the huge chisel brown teeth. He eats the spiders that I don't notice. I do try to put them all outside but if he sees one before I do, unfortunately it's the end of them. Some of the big house spiders are very wiry but he manages. I know they are wiry because I once took a blockage out of my kitchen sink plughole. It was a massive spider that I'd accidently drowned. I nearly died when I saw what I had in my hand. I do realise that my fear is stupid but no matter how much I say to myself "they cannot hurt me" it doesn't work. Something in me says NO to big spiders. Tina Well, there's nothing in the world that says you have to love or handle spiders, large or small. It's not at all stupid, but it is - in this country at any rate - an irrational fear. Elsewhere it's probably good policy to avoid them. You imply, or seem to, that you have little or no trouble with small/er spiders. Have you considered handling a small spider to learn how you react and, maybe, working your way up to medium-size? In very broad terms, that's how a desensitisation programme works. Just how do you cope with smaller spiders? Are these the ones that travel from bath to garden in your fluffy towel, or can you bear to touch them? No. I would die if I touched one, it's taken years for me to pick up the big ones in the fluffy towel. Anything bigger than a money spider I can't do. I know it's irrational. I'm good with picking up anything else. woodlice, beetles, anything. but just not spiders. I know they won't harm me but they fill me with horror. I don't know why. I tried to study them a bit to see if would help. It didn't. So I am happy be able to gather them up in a fluffy towel and put them outside. That took years and that's as far as I can ever go with spiders. Tina Well, that's already an improvement and at least you don't kill them if you can help it. I'm afraid death was the only thing that satisfied when I was at the height of my arachnophobia:~((. I often felt sick with guilt afterwards because I love all creatures, but the terror and panic was too great then to even consider another approach. It was good of you to try studying them, but I know from my own experience that education doesn't work when the fear is that severe. The terror and, indeed, the disgust that prevails with such a phobia is a very real barrier. It was only once I was cured that I started studying spiders and keeping tarantulas. I don't keep the latter now and only occasionally really study spiders, but I spend a lot of time in the garden looking at them closely, photographing them and trying to identify them. Sometimes I think I should do more gardening instead ... just to remain within topic ;~). -- Spider On high ground in SE London Gardening on heavy clay |
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