On 30/07/2013 20:40, Christina Websell wrote:
The agreement was that my brother and I would share my land and the crops,
whether or not we grew them at home.

He's picked every pea and gone on holiday. I've tended the peas and watered
them and I am more than annoyed. Peas are my favourite veg.
I half want to change the padlock. I might still do it as he seems
incapable of not filling it all up and asking me what I want to grow.
I'm more than ticked off.

Is it too much to ask that he liases with me about what to grow? Given that
it's my ground and it cost a whole lot of money, but that's not the point.
He thinks he's going to get it when I die. He isn't.





I do have some sympathy with your situation. I think you're going to
have to tell him he's a selfish git. He may not even realise how
selfish he is and how much he's upsetting you. Perhaps as the end of
the season approaches and you both start to talk about seeds for next
year, you should sit him down (sit on him, if need be!) and read the
riot act. He's got to see it from your point of view. Also, maybe
order lots more pea seeds for next year.
--
Spider
from high ground in SE London
gardening on clay